“How could you make someone fall in love with you without affecting free will?”
I always thought this line from one of my all time favorites Bruce Almighty was very compelling… Well not so much now. Now, that this thought suddenly popped in my head as I was about to lie in the comfort of my bed, i then came to ask the question-“is the end/real purpose of loving someone that of the loved person to fall for you?”
Well the meaning of the question might be vague (esp sa lahat ng nag philo 1.. hehe). But to rephrase the question i end up with, “ is the real purpose of loving to be loved?” If that is so.. oh well I’m not sure tlga.. Basta sure ako na I do not completely agree to this. This is because as I have learned and experienced and realized- loving someone is not primarily just to be loved, however loving someone would have the purpose of making the loved person happy and simultaneously doing so improving or a better word perfecting ourselves. magulo?? Hehe basta perfecting ourselves because we are created in this world and alive at this moment for the highest purpose that is to love…whether be it our family, friends, enemies and ciempre God.
And speaking of God, I would like to start with Him our Almighty Father. As in papa, daddy, creator basta ang Poong Maykapal. Siya na kung saan lhat tayo ay nagmula at ang buhay at pagmamahal nagsimula. And to start, I would like to think on how God wants us to love…Him. Would God require us to pray even 15 minutes a day for His own good? Would he want us to be good all our life just for the sake that evil offends Him? Clearly no! As someone told me, whatever you do God will not be indebted to you for whatever you did. So what’s the point of praying, being good or simply loving God??? For starters, well to repay Him nga! Since we are here with everything we have because of His love we return it with love. I’m sure God is happy with that. However to end with that is absurd! God is even more very happier if we do these things for the sole reason of loving: To reserve a fixed time for Him (sorry hindi ko pa rin po constantly nagagawa to hehehe), to remember Him in times of need or just in any time of our life, to sacrifice all these for Him and to endure life for Him. God is so much happier because He did not waste a creation or to be more real a life because as that life lived he loves. Eh to love is our main purpose di ba. God does remember us each day not so much that each day we remember Him. He does remember us each day so that each day we love and then get to remember God because He made us capable of loving freely. And remember that He is never outdone in generosity especially in giving us love. OK!?!? = )
And ciempre father’s day di ba. Of course ito nga ay mga thoughts for my dadas (madaming dada). Well of course my papa is human. Normal. Matangkad. Mabait. Hindi super gwapo..of course kay mama eh.. (ma ano nga ba!?!? ) at ciempre mapagmahal! We had a share o a lot of things: money, mama, t-shirt (rar!), car (c porsche), surname, higaan nung na-stroke siya, food, shake na timpla niya, misunderstandings, opinions, talks, sad times, happy times and our lives. I of course am very eager to greet him a Father’s day!kaso puyat na ako para maunahan siya sa pag gising (LUSOT!) And then thank him for all the swell things he did, does and will do. And of course give him the t-shirt na binili ni mama sa divisoria at ciempre naki ride lang sa gift ang matalinong bunso. The point is with this many words pwede naming sabihing mahal ko siya. But I still would prefer going on with all the trouble and then say I love him. We love him! Bakit? WHY? It is just for the simple reason that he loves us very much! He loves us to the point of being a strong foundation to this family. He loves us to the point that bakas sila ni mama sa… basta bakas! He loves us to the point that he can't think straight when kuya comes home and endures a mild stroke everytime kuya goes back to work. He loves us to the point that si ate maits eh anak na niya. (KASALAN NA!! ay DAN..DAN..DANDAN!!!). He loves us to the point na chip in ata siya sa reception. (sa batangas o laguna?? Sa gitna!!!) haha. He loves us such that kahit wala pa akong girlfriend nang-aasar yan (hoping one day mahinto na Alaska niya).[si ate maits din kc baka ngwawala na sa sobrang hirit ko sa kanya]. And if this would go on..i’m sure sa page ng listahan, sa baba ng papel, doon sa hangin sa baba noon nakasulat ang he loves us so that my family loves me. That’s why special tlga itong taong ito!Happy Father’s day! May you lengthen your patience! May you have a healthy life! and may you have a healthy long love!!
And ciempre to my granddads.. i was young when you joined God there way up there. Miss na kayo ni lola!!! But I am very sure that the love you showed to your apo was so warm that makes me on this day still remember you po. And still there up you still love us here.
Of course, sa daddies ng mga taong important sa akin. Ganun din po! HAPPY FATHER”S DAY!!! I’m very sure you’ve done so well to raise these good, studious, party-goers, crammers, kalog, diligent, GRABE, awesome, loyal, true, unblue, smiling, secretive friends of mine!!!! Sigurado pag may alam po ako, bahala na po! Happy father’s day to your dad!!!!!!!!!
“How could you make someone fall in love with you without affecting free will?” you really do not have to exhaust all your life just to make him/her to… love to be loved.. pizza love lang??? love pizza because it gives you that awesome taste and nakakbusog pa..un lng.. love to make the person you love happy and grow! Bonus na siguro ung to be loved-which is I really think very possible when you try hardest enough loving!!!!!
Good morning!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!A very lovely father’s day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
